Last Updated on November 12, 2023 by Otuebo Harrison
The symptoms of Genital Herpes can start from painful sores and a hard time urinating to no symptoms at all.
The most known symptom is the presence of blisters that break and turn into painful, itchy sores. Such sores may be found in these areas:
- Penis and scrotum
- Inner thighs and buttocks
- External areas of the female genitals
Herpes sores can also spring inside your body, where you cannot see them. Ladies can have sores in the vagina and on the cervix. Both male and female can have sores in the rectum, the part of the large intestine closest to the anus.
You may notice herpes sores going through predictable stages:
- Small red bumps or tiny white blisters may crop up first, within a few days or a few weeks of the first infection, or in a later outbreak.
- Ulcers may form when blisters rupture and ooze or bleed.
- Scabs form when the ulcers crust over and start to heal.
Every person experiences genital herpes somewhat differently. Other than sores, symptoms of Genital Herpes can include these kinds of uncomfortable or painful sensations:
- Burning when you urinate, or if any of your urine touches sores
- Having trouble urinating because sores and swelling are blocking the urethra, the tube through which urine passes. This problem can become extreme.
- Pain, itching, or tenderness in your genitals
Genital herpes can be caused by either herpes simplex type 1 (HSV-1) or herpes simplex type 2 (HSV-2). If your case of genital herpes is caused by HSV-2, you may have flu-like symptoms, including chills and fever. You may also develop swollen glands in your throat or pelvis, and feel achy and tired.
How Are Genital Herpes Outbreaks Like?
Many people who have been infected with either HSV-1 or HSV-2 are not aware because they have never noticed any signs or symptoms.
People mostly mistake a herpes outbreak for another condition. You may think you have the flu, another STD, or that you have pimples or ingrown hairs, when in fact you have genital herpes symptoms.
First Herpes Outbreak
If you do feel the symptoms, your first outbreak will most likely begin 2 to 20 days after you get infected. In some people, though, a first outbreak occurs years after that first infection. Generally, first outbreaks last two to four weeks. Then the sores and symptoms fades off, but the virus remains in your body in a dormant or quiet state much of the time. That lingering virus can cause later outbreaks, but usually the first is the worst.
During a first outbreak of genital herpes, you may feel symptoms that mimic the flu, such as:
- Swollen lymph nodes in the groin
- Malaise, a general feeling of distress
- Achy muscles
Repeat outbreaks are especially common in the first year of a herpes infection. If you have a repeat outbreak, it may begin with some low-level warning symptoms during a period called a prodrome. A few hours or a few days before a repeat outbreak, you may feel itchy, tingly, or burning sensations in your genitals. These sensations generally arise where the infection first entered your body. Your legs, buttocks, and lower back may hurt.
“Most people do have a prodrome with a recurrent outbreak, with tingling and burning in their skin. Then they usually break out in sores in the same place over and over when they actually become symptomatic,” says I. Cori Baill, MD, an obstetrician-gynecologist and an associate professor at the University of Central Florida College of Medicine in Orlando.
For most people, recurrences are somewhat less painful and shorter than the initial outbreak. The frequency of any later outbreaks, or recurrences, varies from person to person. Outbreaks may not occur at all or they may arise several times a year, or less often. Sores that occur in recurrences usually heal faster than the sores associated with a first episode of illness.
In many cases, outbreaks become more widely spaced as years pass.
The Importance of a Diagnosis
If you feel any of the symptoms listed above, you should see a doctor for an examination. Your doctor may be able to diagnose herpes just by looking at your blisters or sores, and there are also lab tests to diagnose herpes.
The awareness that you have genital herpes allows you to take steps to reduce outbreaks and to protect your sexual partner or partners.
According to the CDC, the outlook for an individual and the type of guidance that person needs depends on which virus is causing the genital herpes, HSV-1 or HSV-2. Recurrent outbreaks are much more frequent for genital herpes caused by HSV-2, as compared with cases caused by HSV-1.
The CDC recommends testing to find out which virus is involved.
The CDC also says that people with genital herpes should be tested for HIV infection. If you have herpes, it’s easier for you to develop an HIV infection because herpes sores give HIV an open path into your body.
When Is Genital Herpes Most Contagious?
During active outbreaks, your viral load is heavier, and at those times you are most likely to infect a sexual partner, says Dr. Baill. “Without an outbreak, the viral load is usually insufficient to infect a normal, healthy partner.”
Have in mind, some people with HSV infections never have signs or symptoms of genital herpes at all. Although you are most contagious during outbreaks when sores are visible, you can also be contagious at times when you are free of any visible sores.
Nonsexual Distribution of Herpes
Herpes sores will show up in the spot where the infection entered your body. You can spread the herpes infection widely by touching your own sores and then touching other spots on your body, including your eyes. You can give yourself genital herpes if you touch your own cold sore and then touch your genitals or anus.
The infection can spread easily this way, says Baill. Good personal hygiene can prevent that kind of accidental viral transfer, though.
“People touch their mouths all day long. They wipe their hands around their faces,” says Baill. She tells her patients to wash their hands both before they go to the bathroom and after. This way, virus from a sore on their face is less likely to infect their genitals or anus.
When to Seek Professional Help for Herpes Symptoms
If your herpes symptoms are bothersome or you’re worried about giving someone else the virus, see your doctor or another healthcare provider.
Antiviral medications can help make genital herpes sores go away faster, reduce the number of outbreaks, and lower the risk of transmission.
Consistent use of condoms and dental dams during sex also lowers — but doesn’t eliminate — the risk of transmitting the virus.
If you don’t have a primary care doctor or gynecologist, you can find expert advice at a Planned Parenthood clinic or a community health center.